It pays to be nice: The six nicest guys in gay porn

By guest blogger Amy

“Nice guys finish last,” so the saying goes, but I’ve noticed in the porn industry, the opposite is true. There are some guys who tend to speak their mind, not giving a damn what anyone may think about it, and some of those personalities have become fairly successful, or at least notorious, because of it.

It’s interesting to see, though, that the truly nice guys are the ones who are succeeding in the business. Because when it comes right down to it, people don’t like ass-holes. Well, they do. A lot. Just not the people ass-holes. Anyway… here’s my list of the people in porn who are proving that being nice pays off.

Trenton Ducati

It pays to be nice: The six nicest guys in gay porn

For as long as I’ve been following this business, I’ve never heard one bad word said about Trenton Ducati. I have, however, heard him called ‘nice’ seventy bazillion times.

Where has this reputation for being the nicest guy in the biz gotten him? He’s hugely successful as an in-demand performer, long after most careers have fizzled out. He continues to be nominated for and wins industry awards year after year. He also has a super hot boyfriend and continues to make a good living having sex with extremely attractive men. Not a bad life at all.

Chris Harder

It pays to be nice: The six nicest guys in gay porn

Chris Harder has been around for a while, until just recently as a popular burlesque performer who goes by the name of Go-go Harder. He still performs but also produces. He also started a really fantastic blog, which you should definitely check out.

I’m not sure the man ever really sleeps- he seems to be going a million miles a minute all day long, but one thing I’m sure of: he’s nice. He’s positive and encouraging and often naked and giving or receiving a blowjob every Friday at Berlin nightclub in NYC.

Steve Pena

It pays to be nice: The six nicest guys in gay porn

Unless you’ve been living under a rock, you will have heard that the Cybersocket Awards were recently presented in Los Angeles. The winner for Best Personality was Steve Pena, a performer and dancer who also runs BrentEverett.comwith his husband, Brent Everett.

It was encouraging to see that the award went to a truly nice guy, rather than one of the other nominees, some of whom have made a name for themselves by putting people down and generally making asses of themselves. Steve not only has the best personality, but an out of this world body, a hot husband, a hot boyfriend, and tremendous success in the industry. Congrats on your win, Steve!

Boomer Banks

It pays to be nice: The six nicest guys in gay porn

If you’ve been following my posts lately, it may have become rather apparent that I harbor a huge crush on Boomer Banks. It’s for good reason, though. The man is not only ridiculously hot, he’s a truly nice, sweet guy.

When the Cybersocket awards began and some industry people were over them before they even began, going so far as to say the awards were straight up bought rather than earned, Boomer did what any truly nice gentleman would do: he congratulated the winners.

It pays to be nice: The six nicest guys in gay porn

His Twitter stream is full of encouraging words for other performers as well as photos he takes with fans. What is this amazing attitude getting him? Just one of the fastest rising careers in porn, a Hookie award nomination, and one of the hottest bodies in the history of the world (you can’t tell me that’s not a result of good karma).

Jessie Colter

It pays to be nice: The six nicest guys in gay porn

I’m sure over 60K Twitter followers would tell you that Jessie Colter is not only gorgeous (I mean, those eyes cannot be real), but he’s extremely nice as well. He’s a popular performer not only because he’s good at what he does, but because he’s so kind to his fans as well.

Bravo Delta

It pays to be nice: The six nicest guys in gay porn

Another winner at the Cybersocket Awards? Bravo Delta won Best Webcam Performer! I’m sure this is in no small part due to his gorgeous face and body and legendary dick, but it’s also because he puts up with a lot of shit on those webcam scenes and he does it with a sense of humor. Sure, he’s a little bitchy when the thousandth person asks him to show his asshole or his pits, but they keep coming back for more, since Bravo Delta is appreciative of his fans and really just does those webcam performances for free. He’s also active on Twitterand interacts with his fans there frequently. It’s hard not to be impressed by the smart, funny, gorgeous webcam performer.

If you’re going to tell met that you’ve met so-and-so and he wasn’t really that nice, I’ll just tell you I don’t really care. These men could pull tails off of puppies in their spare time and it doesn’t matter to me. (Okay, it matters. Calm down.) The point is, these guys know that trying to lift yourselves up by putting others down will maybe earn you a reputation, but not one that will keep you working in this business for very long. Kudos to these men, who have found success because they’re just great guys to be around.

8 responses to “It pays to be nice: The six nicest guys in gay porn”

  1. Nick Colosimo says:

    I love Steve Pena! 🙂 I've never met him in person ( Yet ) 🙂 but he's amazing to not only me, but to everyone online! & Luke Milan should also be on this list he's a total sweetheart!

  2. Thanks again for including me. Your kind words meant a lot!

  3. Anonymous says:

    Christian Owen and Jimmy Durano are by far the nicest guys in this BIZ.

  4. Zoodlemouse13 says:

    So glad to see Bravo on this list. "It’s hard not to be impressed by the smart, funny, gorgeous webcam performer." Truth! And he is ALWAYS really nice to his fans. <3

  5. Marcus says:

    I've met Trenton Ducati several times and that he is on this list is a joke. He may be nice to your face but he's cunty as soon as you turn your back. On the other hand Boomer Banks and Steve Pena
    are both more then nice. total sweethearts. I met Boomer in NYC and he was the nicest guy. I've run into Steve several times out and about in LA and San Diego and was always friendly.

  6. Steve Pena says:

    Thank you so much for the very kind words Amy!! Love you!!!

  7. Gaymertim says:

    Marc Dylan should be on this list he’s super nice!

  8. Jessie colter says:

    Thanks for the kind words! Being raised a southern boy it's instilled in me to be very proper and kind at all times. Besides, I love making people feel good because in turn it makes me feel good. Thank you. PS the eyes are 100% real XOXO

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